adrian gee

5 years ago

How To Attract Any Woman

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So you want to learn how to attract any woman? Well, first of all it begins by making the woman intrigued and fascinated in you and once you have the woman intrigued and fascinated in you, you'll then be able to create that long and lasting attraction between you and basically any woman. You may now be asking "Okay, but how do I make her intrigued and fascinated in me?" I'm glad you asked and here are just 6 tips that will help you with just that.

1. Qualify her.

By qualifying a woman it will show that you're a guy with high standards who doesn't just invest his time and attention in a woman just because she's attractive. Qualification is all about getting the woman to prove she's cool enough and she actually deserves your time and attention. When you actively filter women by qualifying them they will view you as a high-value man. And as a result, they will put more effort into keeping and holding your interest and attention.

After some small talk and banter one of my favorite questions to ask is "So apart from being gorgeous, what else do you bring to the table?" This is a great question because not only are you slightly teasing her but it allows her to share as much information about her as she feels free. This type of question will really give you a good chance to get to know her and then you'll be able to find out whether she truly is an interesting woman to be with.

2. Make her laugh.

Almost every single woman looks for a guy with a sense of humor. They want a guy to be able to make her laugh. The best time to prove this trait is early on in the interaction. Get a woman to laugh or smile early on in the interaction and she'll feel more comfortable and relaxed around you while at the same time giving you the ability to build that intrigue and fascination.

I'm going to give you one technique that you can begin an interaction with the woman laughing and that technique is teasing. Most guys are too insecure to tease a woman straight off the bat so it's a very effective technique if you pull it off right. By starting your interaction teasing her it'll show that you're confident, not intimidated by attractive women and you'll be making her laugh all at the same time.

Here's just a couple examples of how you can begin an interaction with teasing: [1] "Excuse me, I'm going to have to ask you to leave. You're just too damn gorgeous". [2] "You know, you'd look absolutely great with a green mohawk". Using lines such as these can help set the conversation on a playful note right from the beginning.

3. Create an emotional connection.

I can't stress this out enough but building an emotional connection with a woman is critical when it comes to attracting women. Building that emotional connection will give you the ability to feel closer to her and for her to feel closer to you.

One of the ways I like to build that emotional connection is by using the "I" perspective when speaking and to express your emotions, thoughts, beliefs and opinions directly. Let me give you an example. If you say, "I absolutely love going hiking" to a woman it will give her a brief look into your emotional world but if you were to say something like, "Hiking is pretty good" then that emotional component is removed from the equation. Talking about your experiences personally rather than stating objective facts will allow her to feel connected to you on a deeper level.

4. Be confident.

If you want to attract women, confidence is one behavioural trait that you absolutely must have, there's no question about it. And women can tell whether you're confident or not just by looking at your body language. For example if you're not looking her in the eyes when you talk or you're slouching with your head down then women will see you as lacking confidence.

So there are a few things you can do to adopt a more confident body language and the first one is to make yourself appear big while keeping your body movements smooth and calm. Don't be afraid to take up space and absolutely claim the space around you. If this feels out of the normal (which it may if you're doing this for the first time) or you're feeling nervous then take a few deep breaths and relax. Really focus on your breathing.

5. Let go of the outcome.

This tip will help you a lot with attracting any woman and that tip is to let go of the outcome. You need to go into the interaction without a worry whether you get her phone number, a date, a hookup, or even getting the woman to like you. Rejection will happen and that's all part of the process. Just enjoy the process of meeting women and focus on being in the moment and having fun. If you go into an interaction with no expectations or thoughts about the outcome then you'll have no trouble projecting confidence.

6. Build sexual tension.

This tip about building sexual tension is really important because without it, you risk getting stuck in the 'friend-zone'.

Now building sexual tension isn't difficult at all and the most affective way to do this is by touch. You want to implement touch early on within the interaction and you can do this by lightly tapping the back of your hand against her elbow but make sure this feels natural. Don't just go straight for it. If she's comfortable with this you can gradually move on to touch her for longer periods of time and in more intimate places such as her shoulder, thigh, back or face.

You'll know whether to touch her more or less by checking her for compliance. If she's comfortable with you touching her or she begins touching you in return, then you can take things further with your touch. If however she leans away or pushes you away when you touch her, give her space and do not advance. Build more comfort by building rapport and creating that emotional connection. Once she's more comfortable with you, try again with building sexual tension between the two of you.

So they're the 6 tips for today. The best way to make this your natural way of being is to go out there and get a lot of experience talking and flirting with women. I'd encourage you to approach at least 3 women a day and try at least three of these techniques and if you do want to learn more and master the art of seduction make sure you check out and sign up to my program 'The T8'. It's a 8 week video program that will give you all the tools needed to help you transform your dating, business and personal life in 8 weeks. Anyway that's all for today.

Your partner in pickup,

-Adrian Gee

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