How to Approach a Beautiful Woman
How many times have you been out with a few friends, or even on your own, and have seen a beautiful woman that you would love to meet and talk to? How many of those times have you actually decided to walk over to her and speak with her? There are many men out there who avoid approaching women that they find to be extremely beautiful because they simply don’t know how to do it right, or they lack the confidence to approach. Many fear rejection.
However, when you understand the basics and the fundamentals of speaking to women, you will find that you are not going to have any issues when it comes to making the approach and talking with them. Keep in mind that the fundamentals are going to require some practice, but that’s okay. The more you practice the better you are going to get at it. So, let’s start exploring the basics.
Approach Sooner Rather than Later
One of the biggest mistakes that men make when they are thinking about approaching a woman is waiting too long. When you see an attractive woman and you are wondering whether she’s noticed you or not, just make the approach. If you believe that she’s noticed you, she probably did. Now, if you wait too long to approach, and you start to avoid eye contact and get nervous, she’s not going to think that it’s cute or charming. Instead, she is going to think that you are not confident, and that’s not attractive. In some cases, staring and not approaching – okay, in many cases – is going to give off the vibe of being creepy. That’s not the message that you want to be sending.
To be successful with women, no matter where you might meet them, you need to make sure that you are actually approaching them. Doing it sooner is always better than later, and don’t worry about getting rejected. It happens to everyone. Just continue to be friendly and move on to find someone else who might be interested in you. Rejection only stings for a minute at most. Do not let it bother you. If you fear rejection and you fear approaching the women, it is going to make you less confident, which is never an attractive feature on anyone. Simply enjoy the process of meeting the women.
Make the Approach Friendly
Another one of the big mistakes that men make is not using a friendly approach. Being brusque and trying to seem “tough” or aloof is not going to work. She’s going to think you are likely a jerk, mean, or have ill intent. At best, she’ll think it is a joke that no one gets. Puffing out your chest and staring a woman down as you approach is one of the worst things that you could possibly do… so don’t ever do it.
Instead, you want to have a relaxed and friendly approach. The kind of approach that says you are completely comfortable talking to anyone. You want to smile have relaxed and open body language. This shows confidence, and it makes sure that you are not appearing as though you are closed off.
Walk Tall and Feel Confident
When you approach, consciously think about the way in which you are walking and the body language that you are putting out there. This does not mean that you want to strut – you will look ridiculous if you do. However, you want to walk tall. This does not have anything to do with your actual height. It simply means that you are standing up straight with good posture. You don’t want to approach hunched over like you are a caveman or the Hunchback of Notre Dame.
You will notice that when you start to walk taller, you are going to not only exude more confidence to those who are around you, but you are truly going to start to feel more confident just from the way that you are carrying yourself. Sometimes, especially when you are first starting out, you might want to feel confident, but you just don’t. When this happens, it is important that you just push yourself forward. Take a moment to center yourself and then approach.
Use Eye Contact the Right Way
There is a difference between staring and making meaningful eye contact. You need to be very aware of that difference. When you see a beautiful woman, make eye contact with her. It is the first thing that you want to do, as it is going to give you a good indication of whether she wants you to approach, or at least is okay with your approach. When your eyes meet, hold the eye contact and give a relaxed and friendly smile.
If she holds the eye contact or looks away for a moment and then back at you, this is a sign that she’s interested. Just make sure that you are not staring and ogling.
Get the Timing Right With the Approach
One of the other important elements that you are going to have to consider when you are going to speak with a beautiful woman is the timing of the approach. While some might tell you that anytime is the right time to make the approach, that’s not entirely true. While you should be confident enough that you always feel as though you can approach a woman, there are some things that you should avoid. If you don’t, you are going to be considered rude, and chances are good that she will not be interested.
For example, if she is in the middle of a conversation with someone else, such as her friends, you do not want to head over and interrupt that conversation. That is just going to make a bad impression. There are also some who will tell you that it’s okay if she has headphones on to go up and get her attention, or if she’s in the middle of reading a book at a café. Here’s the thing – when you interrupt someone, they are not going to be very pleased about it, and you are going to have to work harder just to make the rest of the approach and conversation go smoothly. You want to make sure that you think about when you approach. The location of the approach is another story, as you will see below.
Approach Regardless of Location
Some out there might feel that the only time and place that you should ever approach a woman is when you are out at a club or a bar. That is some bad advice right there. You will want to approach no matter where you might be. Not only is this going to provide you with more opportunities to meet lovely ladies, but it is also going to show that you are extremely confident.
If you are at the park, and you see a beautiful woman who is walking her dog, go ahead and approach her to start a conversation. If you are in the grocery store, the café, the bookstore, or just about anywhere else, feel confident and approach.
The Right Attitude Goes a Long Way
Overall, having a good attitude that is positive, friendly, and outgoing is going to go a long way in helping you to succeed with women. They are going to feel more comfortable, and you are going to feel more confident.
The Outcome Is Not the Only Thing That Matters
A lot of time, men are too wrapped up in the thoughts that they have running around in their head when it comes to talking with women. They are worried that they are going to have to deal with rejection. As the final tip in this post, it is important that you remember and understand that the outcome of this particular encounter is not the only thing that will matter.
You cannot worry about whether you are going to fumble over your words, whether you are going to get a phone number, a date, a hookup, or anything else. Instead, you need to make sure that you are looking at it as a learning and growing experience each time you approach a woman. The more you do this the better you are going to become at it. Once you realize that not every encounter is the end of the world if it goes wrong, you will feel far more comfortable when you approach. Rejection is part of the process, and you can’t let it affect you. To let it affect you would be a sign of weakness.
Instead, you are going to want to make sure that you are simply enjoying the process of meeting women. It is time that you learned to live in the moment and have a good time.
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