The Best Places to Meet Beautiful Women
We’ve talked a lot about playing the dating game here on this blog. In my post How to Approach a Beautiful Woman, I walked you through the steps necessary to initiate contact. In my post 5 Tips to Ensure You Never Run Out of Things to Say, I helped you understand just how simple it can be to keep conversation flowing. However, there’s something we haven’t yet covered – where do you find those beautiful women in the first place?
Is it all about Tinder today? Is it clubbing? Should you just go out with friends and see what happens? Is there really anywhere that you can hook up with hot women?
Put those fears to rest. In this post, I’ll walk you through some of the best places to meet beautiful women and put your newfound seduction skills to work.
First, a Few Caveats
I know you’re raring to get out there and meet stunning women, but there are a few things we need to get out of the way first. The most important is this – if you’re not confident and bold, the consummate alpha male, you should rethink things. Learn the basics first, before you get out in the wild.
The next thing is that you need to look the part. Dress for the venue you’ll be attending, as well as for the type of woman that you’re trying to attract. Without the right attitude and the right clothing, you’ll be invisible to all but the neediest women.
Ok, now that those are out of the way, let’s talk more about where you should start looking for romance in the first place. I think you’ll be surprised at some of the locations I’ve included on this list.
Where They’re Not
I’m including the following places on this list not because they’re great for picking up beautiful women, but because so many people think they are, when they’re really not. What are those locations – clubs and bars, primarily. Why not go to these venues? Increasingly, women have stopped going, or they go for reasons other than to find romance. They might be blowing off steam with the girls, and hooking up with a guy is the last thing on their mind.
The truth is that while these venues are often recommended, they’re not all that well suited to any of the skills that you’ll need to use. When was the last time you actually had a good conversation with anyone at a club? Exactly – use them at your own risk. I’m not saying you’ll never meet a beautiful woman here, but you’ll definitely have better luck elsewhere.
Know Your Type
I mentioned the type of woman you’re attracted to previously in this post, and that was for a good reason. There’s no one-size-fits-all location to meet women. They don’t all flock to this particular store, or that particular club. Just as not all men like the gym, and not all men like the arcade, not all women are fans of all venues.
So, you need to start by thinking about the type of woman that you’re interested in, and then broaden your search to include venues that this type of woman might frequent. Do you want a career-oriented woman who is ambitious and driven to success? Do you want someone easy going and laidback? Do you want a woman who is super focused on her health and fitness? Maybe you’re interested in college graduates, or maybe you want a party girl.
Understand the qualities of the type of woman that interests you, and then find venues that speak to those qualities. With that being said, there are several venues/locations that we can discuss.
Online Apps and Dating Websites
Ok, you have to admit that you knew this one was coming. Online apps offer a lot of benefits. They’re as anonymous as the lady might want to be, and they help avoid having to actually meet someone who could be a physical threat in the real world. Yes, there are predators out there, and a few douches can ruin things for everyone. It’s no wonder that women have taken refuge behind the walls of apps like Tinder, or dating websites like Match.com.
With that being said, it’s really hard to tell if you’re actually talking to who you think you are. The person on the other end of the app could look nothing like their profile picture. Hell, it could be a guy. It might not even be a human being – bots are everywhere these days. So, use apps and websites, but be wary. Where else can you turn?
The Dog Park
Do you have a dog? If so, you probably want a woman who is also a dog lover. It would suck to start a relationship only to find out that the girl you’re falling for loathes your best friend. So, head to the dog park a few days out of the week. You’ll be able to give Fido the exercise and socialization he needs while you get to socialize with women who love their own dogs. And if your dog and hers hit it off? So much the better.
On a related note, you can also look to meet women at your local park. Avoid playgrounds and other areas that are going to be primarily populated with parents and married women, and instead focus on others. Go for a run and see if someone joins you (or if you can join her on a run). Bring a frisbee and see what happens. Hell, fly a kite and see what happens. There are tons of women in your average park on a beautiful day, so get out there and find the one for you.
This one might sound a little odd for guys who are more attuned to the nightclub scene, but there’s a lot to be said for meeting women at coffee shops and cafes. Many of these will be career-oriented women, and some might even be self-employed or own their own business. They tend to be a bit more intellectual, so this can appeal to guys who like smart women.
You probably knew this one was coming, but I’m going to mention it anyway. It’s a great place to meet health-conscious women who share your passion for fitness. There are additional benefits, too. You can get a better look at her form in workout clothes, for one thing. Plus, it’s a great place to build her comfort with you by giving her tips and pointers, spotting her during workouts and the like.
Everyone has to eat. Grocery shopping isn’t particularly sexy, but it does provide you with a viable means to meet some beautiful women. Plus, as a bonus, you can use the items in her cart to help inform you about a number of things. Does she have a bunch of chicken nugget meals, juice boxes, and kid-oriented snacks? She could have a child. Does she have a couple of steaks, a bottle of wine and a six-pack of beer? Chances are good she’s got a significant other. Does she have a lot of lean protein and plenty of vegetables? She’s definitely into health and fitness. By using the clues available to you in her cart, you can decide if she’s available, and if she’s likely to be your type.
You’ve seen them advertised before – hiking groups, book clubs, gardening clubs, wine and beer clubs. These are interest-specific groups, and they give you a great opportunity to meet women who share your interests and passions. That’s not to say that every woman in your group will be available, but some will be, and you’ll enjoy the group activities anyway, even without a love match, so it’s a win-win.
Wineries and Wine Tastings
Yeah, I know. You prefer beer, or maybe liquor. Wine’s for women. That’s the point! If you can learn to appreciate a good vintage, it gives you a leg up on the competition, and you’ll be able to meet women at wineries and wine tastings. Plus, you’ll broaden your palate and become a more sophisticated man, which is always a good thing.
Want to meet a woman who shares your passion for building community or for giving back? Make plans to attend some volunteer events. It could be something as simple as a book drive or blood drive, or it could be a soup kitchen downtown. You’ll meet like-minded women and be able to do good for others at the same time.
There you have them – some of the best places to meet beautiful women. No, the list isn’t exhaustive. It’s not really meant to be. It’s more about showing you that there are tons of often overlooked venues where a confident, bold man can meet women that don’t involve trying to yell over the house DJ or getting drinks spilled on her when you try to guide her out of the bar.
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