7 THINGS THAT WILL MAKE A MAN LOOK NEEDY
Did you know.. That you may be giving off a needy vibe that's effecting your overall success with attracting women? You don't mean to. It's just that, your enthusiasm for getting a date, or getting a girl to hang out with you, may be at times crossing over into desperation & neediness. You need to avoid this at all times by not allowing your enthusiasm to cross over in this territory, and I know how difficult that can be.
That goes double for frustration - you see, most guys end up kicking themselves and reacting in a negative manner when they get rejected. I know the feeling of that as well because I was in the exact same position before.
Trust me. I know what it's like getting a new girl in your life. Just working up the courage to talk to her and getting her number can be a huge hurdle in itself, so getting her to acknowledge you exist is a huge deal.
And I still remember the feeling of getting shut down by a woman and going down in flames. What's even worse is if she purposely does it because maybe she enjoys making men feel like shit.
Whatever the case, you need to make sure you've got enough self-awareness NOT to f*#k it up. But when you begin to invest in a particular woman, it can be difficult to tell whether you're doing it wrong.
So, in this blog post I'm going to share 7 things that you SHOULDN'T do around women:
#1 Jumping The Gun
So, you're texting back and forth with a girl and you've started to build some sexual tension between the two of you. The worst thing you could possibly do in this scenario is by sending her pictures of your junk or asking her to send you nude pics. Just NO bro.
Nothing kills the mood faster then getting too dirty before she's even entertained the thought of going to sleep with you. Be subtle when you plant the idea of having sex with you in her head - think about the long term game and don't rush it.
#2 Not Knowing When To Quit
"Just keep trying and never give up until you succeed" doesn't apply to all situations, mostly when we're talking about dating.
You're not applying for a job here so trying to persuade her you're the perfect applicant won't get you "hired". If you've pushed the wrong buttons and haven't attracted her, no amount of logic will convince her to go out with you.
Look, if you've gotten a hard, solid "NO" more then a couple of times, it's time for you to move on and find another girl. Otherwise, if you keep pushing for a yes from the same girl, you'll just lower your social value and look weak.
There are plenty of beautiful woman out there so the Alpha move is to learn from the rejection, see what you could've done differently then try again on another woman you find attractive.
#3 Acting Like A Lost Puppy
Having a real go at a relationship with a woman can send a man over the edge if you allow it. But just because you have the inclination to be around her ALL the time, doesn't mean that you should. The key to winning a woman is by being a measured guy. If you find yourself hanging out with her 24/7, tailing her and not giving her a chance to miss your absence, you will soon realise you will be kicked out from her life.
Same goes with constantly sending her texts, FB messages or whatever - calm down a little and avoid crowding her whether that's in person or online.
#4 Disrespecting Other Guys
This is a massive red flag because bringing other men down to bring yourself up is the opposite of Alpha male behaviour. If you've found yourself acting jealous or threatened by another man's presence, snap out of it! This is a sign of your insecurities and MUST be avoided at all costs.
The reality is: There will always be someone out there that's better than you - get over it. Women don't actually care if you're not a carbon copy of Zac Efron or Tom Cruise.
You don't have to be like them to attract girls. Instead of focusing on the things you don't have, start focusing on the positive things you do have and implement those into your personality.
#5 Cold Calling
I don't understand why some guys think that by calling a woman out of the blue will make her suddenly want to see them. Think about it, in her mind, it won't make any sense to have a guy suddenly tell her they need to hang out without the guy putting in any work before hand.
This is what 'players' will usually do when their other plans didn't work out or when their out of other options. How would YOU feel being treated as a last resort option?
Create some emotions with her before asking her out, like, be flirtatious with her and set up some plans in advance.
#6 Acting Like A Man Child
Getting rejected is one thing but acting like a man child about it is another. If you approach a woman and she harshly rejects you, let's say for example, she tells you to f*#k off, be the bigger person. Don't even bother thinking of a comeback. Resist throwing insults or 'putting her in her place'.
All you have to do, is keep it simple. Simply say, "Well that was rude, hope you have a good day" or, "It was nice to meet you."
Then WALK away.
You are a high status man and you have nothing to prove to a random woman you've never met before so defending yourself in this situation is quite pointless.
#7 'No Answer' *IS* An Answer
If you've sent a ton of messages to a girl you like and she's stopped responding to you, well, take that as a sign she's just not into you. Sorry man, not every girl is going to find you irresistible and that's totally fine.
Remember bro, there a *literally* millions of beautiful chicks out there, and there will be one out there that's perfect for you.
But she's probably not the one if she's acting like she fell off the face of the Earth. Move along and work on strengthening your inner game.
If you need help with this, I've got a program called The T8 that will take your seduction skills to a mastery level.
Knowing which desperate behaviours to avoid is important, but it's just the beginning. If you want to know how to ACTIVELY create attraction in a woman's mind, you'll need to know MORE than what NOT to do. Be sure to continue onto the next page to learn more about the art of attraction.