3 WAYS TO BE THE ATTRACTIVE MAN THAT WOMEN CRAVE
Alright brother so here is a proven fact: Women don't like pushovers.
They find these types of men absolutely REVOLTING and if you possess certain behavioural traits, you may have already been placed in this category by the women you've approached.
The tricky thing is, these women aren't just gonna tell you what turns them off or what they find unattractive in a man, and if you approach a woman with a bad vibe, she'll pick up on those unattractive behavioural traits and immediately reject you.
The main reason women won't tell you what it is that's turning them off is because they don't consciously know themselves.
Attraction isn't something women consciously think about, it's more of a subconscious thing. It's like, deep down in every woman's subconscious lies a button that triggers attraction, and you can either press it, or leave it.
So, if you're not doing the correct things to spark that attraction response, she'll never see you as that attractive, strong-minded guy that she so very much loves.
To get you on the right path to become that attractive, strong minded man, I'm going to share 3 tips with you:
1. There's MORE to Attraction Than Physicality
Okay, so I'd be lying to you if I said that looks didn't matter because you see, women will always 'feel' attracted to men who are gifted with good looks. You just have to accept that reality but, that's not to say average-looking men can't also attracted those 9's and 10's.
Good looking guys may have a slight advantage over average-looking men but looks are by no means that magical secret to forming irresistible attraction with women.
As cliché as this may sound, it's what you have on the inside that matters the most. You can still prove to women of your Alpha male traits if you know how to act around them.
Sure, you've gotta make sure you're well groomed, you dress nicely, you work-out, you go to a dentist and get your teeth whitened or 1 of my favorite ways to get my teeth whitened is by using Teeth Whitening Solutions Activated Charcoal, etc. But the thing is, having a 6-pack and a model looking face is far from a requirement to being an attractive man.
Instead, what you must do is work on your internal strength, and you can begin by removing your needs for women to validate you.
This principle is by far, the most significant trait to have whilst approaching women. When you base your self-esteem on how women feel or think about you, you're literally abolishing any possibility of attracting her.
The funny thing is, most guys don't actually know they're doing this even if it's just the smallest of ways.
Here are just a few examples:
Looking for sympathy ("My ex dumped me because I'm too short - I hope you're not as superficial as her...", "I had a tough time at school and women didn't find me attractive...").
Asking how she feels about you ("So, how do you feel about me? Do you see us being a couple in the future?", "I'm really starting to fall for you, do you feel the same way for me?")
Being indecisive (So, I was thinking... If it's okay with you... Would you like to grab a coffee with me? If it's okay with you, I don't mind, you can pick the time and place.")
Doing any of this with a woman you fancy will make you seem as though you're embarrassed and uncomfortable to share the same physical space as her, and that's not a good attitude to have if you're developing yourself to be that attractive, decisive man you've always wanted to be.
If you ever feel tempted to act like this around a woman you like, recognize this 'itch', but don't scratch it. What I want you to do instead, is to resist that temptation of seeking for her sympathy or acceptance.
Try to be more decisive. Be sure of your decisions and make sure you have a solid plan in mind prior to asking her out.
Now, this doesn't mean you shouldn't be accommodative to her own needs (for example: moving the date to Sunday instead of Thursday, not making her Salsa if she has an ankle injury, etc.).
However, the woman will be a lot more attracted to you if you've got the basics figured out in advance. She'll see you as the guy who's in control and who's got his shit together.
2. Don't Pander to Her Ego
If you're a man who uses bribes in the form of presents, handouts and other materialistic things just to acquire attention from a girl, then you've already lost the girl.
Rash and over-the-top affection - together with attempts of 'warming her up' is basically going with the nuclear option. It plainly gives up the game far too quickly, and you lose.
Bro, remember this: Timing is a key element to not being seen as needy or powerless. Give her attention by teasing and flirting, but never think that by treating her like a princess will get you brownie points with her.
A cat won't chase a ball of yarn if you give it to them within reach but they will, however, give a chase if you hang a string down in front of them that's just out of reach and make them work for it.
Now you may be telling me that you're a 'nice guy' who likes to treat women right, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that just make sure you don't do it straight away.
Make her wait a couple of weeks and allow your charm to do the work for you. Build enough sexual tension first so she'll feel as though she had to earn your gift-giving, warm-hearted side.
3. Be Inclined to Take Risks
No man got to where he wanted without getting rejected or failing countless times. The method to becoming an attractive man is built from learning from your mistakes. There's no way around this.
That's why you will fail and get rejected from time to time; that's just the process of becoming better at attracting and seducing gorgeous women.
Here's a little challenge for you: Why don't you try approaching a woman with the mindset of not caring about the desired outcome of the interaction?
I'm not saying to be intentionally rude or not show her the respect she deserves but what I'm saying is: Don't go into the interaction seeking validation from the woman.
Treat it as though it's a social experiment where you just wanna see what happens when you approach a woman with a 'I don't give a fuck' attitude. You'll get some unreceptive and neutral women, but you'll also get some positive, receptive women in the mix too.
And that brings us to a valuable lesson:
When you start to not give a fuck what women think about you, and focus more on proving value and having a good time - you'll have more success with beautiful women.
Although this is setting you in the right direction with being successful with women, I'll admit that you'll need a lot more than just a healthy amount of detachment from the outcome of an interaction.
You'll also need that solid alpha male personality women look for in a man - and that takes a substantial amount of social skills to cultivate this inner temperament.
That's why I've created a foolproof course called the T8 System that will help you develop and grow to become that attractive man you've always wanted to be. This is the real stuff that goes beyond the surface, like having a ton of money or good looks.